okok, first, i have to structure my following essay....
ah, wad the heck. enough of gp for now.
i've been thinking. i really do believe in vicious cycles. esp. for the sarcasm between ppl. according to some anonymous person..
the amount of niao-ing is directly proportional to the depth of friendship. but does that stay true for al types of ppl?
i dun think so.
probably some ppl will just take sarcasm like a passing remark and dun give a hoot about it. some Do take it very very seriously. well, to me, i dun really care.
i mean, y make life so miserable when living is already a suffering?
i dun mean to push the blame to others like "they start to niao so i oso niao lor". i AM guilty of niao-ings too. and i DO intend to minimize it to almost zero.
oh ya, main point. y vicious cycle? first i see the person and i have a comment to make. so i start to niao. den the person not happy den niao back. i oso bu shuang so i continue to niao. like a never ending cycle,wad's the point? it's not like the battle of the fittest where the final standing survivor gets to win a million bucks.
another e.g. okok, so we do make alot of comments on ppl. den ppl say, u all think u all very gd meh can niao others. but then again, it comes back again. so u all think u all very gd ah, can niao BACK at us. lol. life can really be a drag man.
for a simplistic minded person like me, i usually dun really think much before i speak so quite often, i say things so that pl can laugh over it. as long as ppl ard me are happy, i am happy. being a growing teenager, yes, i DO follow the crowd. ppl can say so i oso say lor. to me, it's like, wad's the big deal?
but sometimes, i do think that niao-ings can get out of hand. i dun mind random jokes, rumour and all but if all those is going to make ppl feel embarassed, awkward den hey, put a stop to it. there's a limit to everything. if evryone noes it's for the fun of it den ok nvm lor. but if the person gets irritated and asks to stop it, den dun continue.
but wad's life without a bit of comments here and there? i'm sure evryone has his/her fair bit of commenting on others. like, "look at hr new hair cut man", or like, " shi4 chou3 de lor!".
if it's all in the name of fun, i think dere's nothing wrong. besides, there's no perfect person in the world. just enjoy being yrself( but amidst enjoying yr self, dun forget to consider the feelings of others too. the earth does not revolve ard only one person!). if u're happy being wad u are now, y bother. let other s say all they want. even the one who says the sarcasm(including me) is not perfect. being human, we just like to pin point others imperfect to make our OWN imperfectness SEEM smaller.
bottom line, live life to the fullest. =]
oh, tml getting back hcl o level result. wish me luck!
Thursday, February 08, 2007
wad's the point?
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